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What summer poverty looks like for Benji's family

Leanne Cresswell - Digital Content Officer
Wednesday 12 August 2026
Little boy with hand on his mouth concentrating

Benji's family share their experience of the summer holidays, the challenges they face, and how we've helped support them.

I know we don’t have as much money as other families. I think about it every day.

Kerry, Benji's mum

For many children, summer is a time for holidays and fun days out.

But for families like Benji’s, the summer holidays can bring weeks of financial worry.

His parents, Tom and Kerry’s life changed when Kerry had to undergo emergency surgery while giving birth to Benji.

As a result, she developed chronic pain and could no longer walk properly.

With Kerry and their three children needing support, Tom quit his job to become a full-time carer.

Losing Tom's income meant the family had to move into social housing and give up their car because they could no longer afford the repayments.

The reality of summer

The financial pressure forces Tom and Kerry to make difficult decisions on how they spend their money during the summer.

While Benji’s friends go on holiday or enjoy days out, he and his siblings have to regularly miss out.

The ice cream van parks on our street, and every day they watch the other kids queuing up.

Kerry, Benji's mum

Even a short break away from home is out of reach.

“We keep looking to see if we can manage a couple of days away, but it’s just impossible”, says Kerry.

Making summer work

The family focus on finding low-cost or free activities to keep the children entertained.

But even then, they still have to be strict.

A picnic out for all of us can cost £30 with snacks and treats and that’s just not do-able.

Kerry, Benji's mum

To help keep their children entertained, the couple have introduced 'Yes Days'.

“We have to say 'no' so often to our kids, we have days where we say ‘yes’ to a surprise activity”, says Kerry.

The children each write down an activity or small treat, place them in envelopes and pick one at random for a surprise treat.

How we’ve supported Benji's family:

They just loved Cadbury World and came home with way too much chocolate!

Kerry, Benji's mum

This summer, too many families face impossible choices between food, bills and activities.

But you could help change that.

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